im a teenager right now. %26amp;%26amp; i no ur probably expecting an adult to answer you but im experiencing teenage years at the moment. i totally know where ur coming from with the whole not knowing why she doesnt want to hanggout with friends %26amp;%26amp; etc. but if ur in bad health she probably thinks that the day she decides to go out with people is the day that something will go wrong. i think the problem is that she is a little insecure. she probably number one doesnt want to get in trouble with you in bad shape and all and number 2 probably feels bad about leaving you here alone when in these comditions.i understand that you feel you are holding her back. i am extremely sorry that you feel that way but i think if my mother was in ur state of conditions i would feel bad about leaving her too. so i defintly agree with your thought of her not wanting to leave you. she probably also doesnt want to put pressure on you if ur in bad health. she probably only wants the best for you and i know that u only want the best for her also. If she has a lot of friends or peers that she hangs aruond be grateful for that. because its the wurst feeling in the world to feel as if u dont have any friends. but i think shes trying to ake you her main focus instead of her friends and social life... im sorry if i didnt answer your question. but i tryed!
try to be thankful though for the relationship tha you two have just try to have fun with her when you are with. because when your gone or when shes gone your gonna regret it if you guys werent close. believe me. so just try to enjoy her %26amp;%26amp; enjoy that shes around instead of seeming like you wanna push her away. the best of luck too you...鈾?br>
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have you tryed telling her to invite her friends over, or maybe even telling her than she can have a party. when she does she will realize that you want her to have fun and that she enjoys having fun with her friends.
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i was never like that as a teenager either. we shouldn't stereotype.
give her a chance to figure it out but if doe'nt tell her or growned her!
I think each person's character is different ,so her life style also different with other peoples, your daughter is a introversion's girl, if she feel enjoy I think is OK.
let her know exactly what you said here, tell her that you appreciate her loyalty to you, but that you do not want to be a burden on her and want her to have friends--see them and have fun. Perhaps you are reading too much into this and she is really a home-body who enjoys the company of family, afterall there's nothing wrong with a family oriented person. :)
no not everyone is like that there are some good and bad kids, God created good and evil
She'll go out with her friends as time passes. Maybe she is just not ready yet (shy or not sure what to expect)
Sit down and talk with her. Ask her what kinds of thigs she likes to do. She may just be the type of person that likes to stay home. My daughter is.
Hope you feel better soon.
That is really sweet. What a nice daughter! That being said, I think you're right. She needs to be a teenager. Maybe just talking to her about her concerns would help. If not, then maybe you could find a friend to hang out with sometimes and she would feel better leaving you with a friend than alone.
She's a late bloomer, I think. Just explain to her heart to heart that she can enjoy her life without worrying about her mother. Dont preassure her to go, though. Just slightly encourage her, but, she'll hate it if you nag. Good Luck!
first of all good luck with your health, just pray....
and be happy you have a great daughter comparing to this crazy girls out there so sleezy and dirty even starting with 12 its horrible of course she has to have contact with people why dont you invite one of her friends over or a girl from school
maybe you could have a conversation with the girls parents to invite her over like a little setup not in a bad way but just to get her out a bit
organize a little get together with the people she likes or you think would fit her.
good luck and get better
Not every 14 year old is wild , and they shouldn't be . Count your blessings and let her know you appreciate and love her.Gods' Grace made her who she is , for reasons we don't question.
tell her that you can go out with your friends and have fun and that you dont have to be in the house all the time . just to be safe always
list of all, cherish the fact that she cares. It is never too much for someone to care and give time, love, and attention. My Dad has been very ill,(my step-Dad, Dad none-the-less) and it has been worrying me because there is so much distance between us. Just be grateful that you have someone close by who cares.
atfirst tell her if she wants to go out your having company over that mite be a start then she mite not be so worried about you you have a doll she love her mom
Tell her what you just wrote here except for the I'm holding her back part
Why are you pushing her to go and hang out? You should be thanking yr lucky stars to have a daughter like that! Smile, MOM!
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